It all started with “people to follow” <3 I saw this twitcon with high heels so i’m like woohoo :D I followed her for a while and she’s always BITCHING >< So she was just a random person I follow that did’nt mean anything to me. So one day she said Kim K was ugly, it pissed me off, so I tweeted back defending that peice of meat, we kept on arguing about her. So after a while of tweeting each other she DMed me and asked me if I know her, I told her I just saw you on my front page and followed you. So one random time I put a nice picture of me as my twitcon and I kept on refreshing my tweets, until I saw a heart face thingy by her <3 I was like hell yes, I told her straight away if you’re pretty and an amazing person i’ll never leave you alone, and guess what? She tweets that seconds after I said it. So we keep DMing and then I indirectly asked for her number, she did’t give it to me (ass) but I gave her mine and she told me she’ll call me the next morning in university. So after I was sleeping my ass off, I woke up finding a few missed calls by her, I was like shit and the first thing I do is call her. She picks up and i’m really nervous, I didn’t want to screw any words up :S. So she sounds good, I asked her how she was doing and just general things, so the conversation ended and we hung up. She texts me and tells me that my voice was sexy <3 I replied with the same thing. So after a few calls and stuff we arragned a day to meetup and talk. So when that day came I wore nice clothes, smelled good, got ready like hours before, and I made sure everything was perfect, it was March 17^th 2011, the day where it all started <3 So I get to this nice quite cafe and I waited for her, I called her and she told me she was on the way, so I sit and wait and I was so nervous, she was my first date! So after 20 minutes she calls and she’s like very close, I’m like i’m sitting at that table in the back and so on, next thing I see is her right in my face walking towards me! I got up and my arms automatically hugged her, I did’nt mean it and it was so random but it felt so amazing.So she sat in in front of me and we started talking about random things, how’s school and so on. She ordered coffee and I ordered a milkshake. So the place was freezing cold, i’m like come sit next to me (on side of the table is closed towards a wall). So she got up and sat next to me, so we kept on looking in eachothers eyes speechless, I was kind of shaking but thank god she did’nt notice. I started moving her leg with mine just to break the ice and make everything seem less awkward. So after I just went first and I held her hands, we just held hands and looked in eachothers eyes for so long, it felt amazing. It stayed the same way until she told me she wanted to wisper something into my ear, I automatically knew it was going to be a kiss on the cheek, so I instantally smiled and I got the kiss, it felt so good. So we just held hands and kept staring in eachothers eyes for a while, then she came close to me and kissed me on the lips, nothing felt better than that, it was my first time and it was defenetally worth it. Why? Because we’re in our 154th day together and we love each other more than anything, we got to a period that we kept on fighting everyday, but we went through those days, we got closer, and loved each other even more <3 Everyday I love her more and she means the world to me, I would give up anything just to see her, she always makes me smile, laugh, cry, she’s my everything <3 She is my first girlfreind and my last. I just want her and I don’t have any idea how my days will be without ever, and I don’t ever want to know how those days would feel. She’s my everyhing. Everyday is a day passed, and we have a lifetime to go <3

by swear-on-prada-shoes

Hi there. I’ve always wanted to submit to this awesome blog but i have never had a lady love yet. So i’m sending you a picture of me and my beautiful Kaya, whom i love very much. Hope this gets posted but if it doesn’t it’s ok anyways, just spreading the love. Cheers.

by martenart 

I usually submit a pic of my boyfriend & I but I decided to submit somethin different! :)

This handsome little man is my nephew. He was born August 6th 2007. I don’t have any younger siblings since I’m the youngest of 3, so when this guy came into my life, it was a blessing! I was there in the delivery room holding my sisters leg when he was born. I have ALWAYS been there for him. Other than his mom & his dad, I’m the next closest person to him. Especially since most of this family (on his dad’s side) lives in California. Don’t mean to brag, but apparently, I’m the original “Aunty” haha :) all his other aunts, he calls then “Aunty Lyn” or “Aunty Jen”, but me? I’m just “Aunty” 8) haha I take pride in that! He’s incredibly smart & talkative for his age, a little TOO talkative. It’s hard to even make it through 1 meal without him blabbing on about something random. lol even though he can act like a brat, I love this kid to DEATH & I would go to immeasurable heights for his happiness. You mess with this kid, you mess with me, & trust me you do not wanna get to that point. I’m gonna be with him every step of the way until I die. I love you, Kaeleb! :)

by xcherryb0mb

Over a  year strong, we fight and argue and even broke up for a day or two but we always come right back to each other and at the end of the night I wouldn’t trade the love we share for anything <3

by ourheartsrheavyburdens

Have you met my boyfrien? His name is Jon. And I love him with my WHOLE heart and with EVERYTHING I have. :)

by blahtolove 

Ally and I have been best friends since the sixth grade. I met her through my horse back riding lessons. When we first started to hang out, the friendship was rocky. When my mom asked what I thought of her, I said, “she’s okay.” (That makes Ally and I laugh to this day.)

She’s the more outgoing one. When high school came around, she was the one who introduced Jordyn and Sarah. I was still the quiet, wallflower-like girl she’d first met. It didn’t take long for the four of us to click. It didn’t matter that Sarah and Jordyn were loudest people I’d ever heard when put together, or that Ally was ten times more courageous than I and willing to fight for all of us, or that Jordyn wasn’t afraid to flaunt her self-confidence, or that Sarah’s heart was large enough to swallow all of my problems and hers. The four of us together in a class was bound to cause so much trouble (we learned that quickly sophomore year). We became tighter than sisters.

And now we’re splitting apart for college, even though it breaks my heart to say so. I don’t doubt we’ll remain friends. They’ve changed me for the better. These three girls have made me stronger, more confident, louder, and eager to be heard. Ally taught me that it is worth it to stand up for things you care about—most importantly, your friends. Sarah has been there for me, listening, with me whenever I needed her. Jordyn pushed me to go after my dreams—or crushes—without hesitation. I have grown so much because of them.

I love them so much.

http://changingthestars.tumblr.com

I’m Yumii.
This is me and my son Phoenix.
I could sit here and try to explain all the reasons why I love him other than him being my baby…but I can’t. There’s one love you can never ever break, never explain and never forget, and that’s the love for your child.
Hes got my smile and he’s got the best giggle, he’s smarter than most 2 y.o.’s [and I’m not just saying that!], he wakes me up every morning at 9am and always asks for pancakes.
He’s the best thing that has ever happened to me..
better than any win…
better than any man…
Everything and anything about love for me is just this boy.

by yumiimuse

19 months with this guy right here[:

His: mattchoonarvaez.tumblr.com

Hers: chaellabella.tumblr.com

He is my everything. 

Ever thine, ever mine, ever ours. <3 

by sammdear

It doesn’t matter the how long you & your significant other has been together. But it’s about the fights, disagreements, and of course the struggles you two have been through together to get where you guys are today. ♥ 

I wouldn’t wanna trade him for anything. He means the world to me, just because we’re young, definitely doesn’t mean anything. I’m looking forward to a bright future with him .<3 i love you baby! 12162009; ♥

*_ We can defeat the impossible, because baby, we’re unstoppable. <3

Mine; xjennnifer.tumblr.com
His; Mathipannhak.tumblr.com  

This is me and my boyfriend for almost 7 years.. We are also one of those who are in a Long-Distance-Relationship but see how distance made us more stronger that is why I don’t believe that LDR doesn’t work cause it will for as long you know your commitment and have a trust on your partner there will be no problem left unsolved and that what makes us go farther than this…

HE is the man in my fairytale and the king in my castle..No one could ever love him as much as I do and with that I am proud to share it with you, that my life will be nothing without my Mr. Boo..

http://epolad-princesa.tumblr.com/

Who said that being in a relationship is easy? Who said that by looking at a couple holding hands, their the perfect couple? Who said that this picture is a picture perfect picture? No one! Being in a relationship teaches two people how to love someone other than their own self. It takes TWO people to make the relationship look easy. It takes TWO people to make a picture look picture perfect. It takes TWO people to make a relationship a perfect one. And, it takes TWO people to make that relationship last for a lifetime. This picture is worth a thousand words, from our ups and our downs, from the past until the present, from our laughters to our tears, from our happy moments to our angry arguments. Don’t judge this picture from the moment you see two people smiling because there’s a story behind it. My story is that we’re both not perfect. What makes us perfect is being with each other, balancing each other out, teaching one another from right and wrong. It’s been already 3 years since we first got together and we grew tremendously. We lost many friends, broke each other’s hearts, had many arguments, made each other laugh, gave each other butterflies, and most of all, loved each other since day 1. We’re not perfect as individuals, but when we’re together, we’re a perfect couple. So now, if your in a relationship, ask yourself; what’s your story?

by chazminee

I Thank god everyday for having you in my life. I really don’t know where i would be at this moment. Really doesn’t matter because  I’m here with you. I promise to give you the best of me. I promise i will love the only way i know how UNCONDITIONALLY.

I LOVE YOU BABY 7.20.07

by drea5276 

My tumblr : http://annalisewashere.tumblr.com/

He’s my number 1 happiness :) 

No one can ever compare to him!

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1. Yes, I allow same sex couples.

2. I don’t limit them. There just aren’t as many same-sex submissions as there are heterosexual submissions.

3. If you want to know how I choose them, go here. Although lately I’ve mostly only been rejecting ones that have a problem with it and not based on criteria.

We just use a tripod and use the timer option on the camera. It’s not as awkward as it looks or sounds.

I’m going to be away for a little over a week so I won’t be posting. I don’t expect to be posting at all, but I may be able to once or twice during the week. But that’s really it. Sorry!

This is about a different kind of love. It’s about finding self-love again after a traumatic event. And I’ve been dying to get my story out. Hopefully it can help someone out there.

My boyfriend went to college while I was still in high school. His life changed dramatically. My life was still the same. I was unhappy before – I hated high school. I had no friends. But now I was lonely and worried, too. I was in an extremely vulnerable state. Then I met someone. Let’s call him C. C gave me all of his time, something no one else had done for me before. We would hang out every day, doing things like making brownies or doing puzzles. Very innocent activities.

C started developing feelings for me. He knew I had a boyfriend, but he made moves anyway. He would tuck my hair behind my ear and whisper that he wished I was his. From the first day I met him I knew he was trouble – he gripped my arm so tightly after I hit him gently, just playing around, that I froze, truly frightened. It was a classic deer in headlights moment. When he walked away I told my friend, “I bet he hits his girlfriends.”

My first instinct was accurate, I’d later find. C and I got closer and closer. I cared about him more and more. One night I snuck out to talk to him. We got in his car, got in the back seat. And he laid his body on top of mine. He fingered me. I didn’t look at him the whole time. I didn’t let his lips touch mine. I had a boyfriend. This was just physical. This was me being a stupid teenager, giving in to something physical. Kisses had meaning. This could not.

When he was done and I still hadn’t kissed him, he gripped my face. He forced me to look at him. Through gritted teeth he commanded, “Come on.” The fear and the moment caused me to give in. Things were good between us for a while after that night. But C was a drug dealer. He became less and less dependable. He’d be two hours late to hang out, and be completely unapologetic about it.

He started saying things like, “Get the fuck over here. Shut the fuck up, bitch. I don’t want to hear your shit.” He’d punch me in the arm with force, then immediately apologize and wrap me up in his arms and say he hadn’t meant to do it that hard. One day he punched me in my left cheek.

Yes, I was being abused. Could I see it at the time? No. All I could see was this person who had originally treated me with kindness. This person who I felt like was all I had here. I did not see the low life abuser who was lying to me and taking total advantage of how much I cared for him. He was my dealer – my attention dealer. And I so craved to matter to someone.

One morning I went to his house and made him breakfast. I got into his bed. I’d never let him take my clothes off. That was a line I had drawn. I had never touched him. I never would. That morning, he was done with it all. He was done with me. He stripped off all of my clothes while I laid there, too shocked and terrified to move. It was broad daylight and I was totally exposed. He had dry sex with me with his jeans on. Thrusting, grinding, against my bare skin. Humiliating me. Violating me.  He had to know he was hurting me, from my silence, my body language, my facial expressions. But he ignored these indicators, taking what he wanted.

When I had to go to school, I put my clothes on and he kissed me without looking at me. He didn’t walk me to the door.  I didn’t hear from him for the rest of the day. This person, who I had considered my friend. Who had looked me in the eye and told me he cared about me. This is what it had taken for me to realize we were not friends.

We did not spend time together after that. I walked around full of anger and further emotions that I can’t put into words. After a couple of weeks I thought I was going to go crazy. Something inside me felt like it was going to crack. I had been sexually assaulted. And I could not tell anybody.

He had the nerve to ask me who I was angry at. I unleashed a river of insults. A tirade of expletives. Every time he’d try to respond, I’d tell him to shut the fuck up because there was more that I hated about him. His final response was apathetic. But I had said what I had needed to say.

I moved far away for college. I thought it would all be behind me. This new start, the new people, the new environment, would be enough to get me to stop harboring this hatred and guilt. But it wasn’t. Something I saw triggered the memories, and I sought help, finally.

I had my first counseling session last week. The woman listened to everything I had to say. And she told me valuable things that I had needed to hear for months. To every other girl that has been abused, sexually assaulted, or put through something else traumatic, especially by someone you trusted and cared for –

It was not your fault. You were vulnerable. You were taken advantage of. There was nothing you could have done. It is okay to feel angry. It is okay to feel sad sometimes. All the emotions you feel are reasonable. You are a good person. You are still a strong person. The douchebag who did this to you gained your trust, so of course you couldn’t hit him. Freezing up is a normal response. It isn’t natural to fight off someone close to you, so do not blame yourself for that. There are no magic words that will make you feel better immediately, but it gets better over time. It helps a lot to talk to someone, and to take time for yourself. Whatever makes you feel better – reading, writing, listening to music, going on a walk…

Understand that this was a traumatic event. It may affect your relationships with other people. But you don’t have to let it. You couldn’t control what happened to you, but you can control what happens now. You deserve to be happy.

-Anonymous

sorry if this isnt your typical love story that lasts forever… but this guy is the most amazing guy in the world, ever since i realized that i love him, i have been waiting for him to ask me to be his forever, for him to ask me, if id like to have his last name. for him to ask me to walk down that aisle to be claim me his. thats how strongly i loved this guy. we were together for 18months until last saturday night something drastic happened.. 3 weeks ago i made the biggest mistake of my life, and i didnt tell him because i didnt want to lose him and i knew if he knew id lose him forever. someone sabbotaged our relationship, because i did cheat on him and i didnt tell him…and you ask why? because i made a mistake, and i stopped it as fast as i could but i guess i didnt stop it fast enough. all of you whose reading this could hate me, all of you could despise me and tell me i deserve everything that im going through. all of you can tell me i dont deserve your pity or care because i know i dont. you can tell me that i deserve to die, because i do want to. you can tell me that i dont deserve him, because i know i dont. you can tell me that i dont deserve a second chance because i know i dont, because i know this guy can get any girls he want. i know any girl will fall head over heals for him and i know he wont stay single for a long time. i know all of that, and i took him for granted. the person i was involved with other than my boyfriend told him everything that happened. he then, my boyfriend, now my ex repeatedly told me he hates me, and who wouldnt? im a mess, unfaithful, untrustworthy, undeserving of anyone’s love specially his.. and im just not someone whose worth a second chance because of what i did…

as much as i would love to have a second chance, i lost all hope, but that doesnt mean im going to stop fighting for him. many who knows what happened between us will say im not worth it, because i know i am. the reason im writing this is because, everyone deserves to know how amazing he is even though hes not mine anymore. even tho i messed up, f*****d up, and i deserve everything thats happening to me doesnt mean i dont love him anymore. ive loved him 3 months after we started dating and it took me 2 hours to tell him that i did, because i couldnt say it right, because i would choke everytime i did, until i built up the courage at 2:33am in the morning, and i told him i love him and happily he loved me back.

we practiced long distance together for a whole year, he drove six hours from LA to OAKLAND just to ask me to be his girlfriend… (didnt i say girls he was a good catch?) i didnt have a car then, so hed drive to me while id fly to him…and i moved back home and it was much easier. he made all of my dreams come true. i found a man worth loving, he made me swim with dolphins, he bought me a computer, and he bought me the most amazing promise ring, he gave me a forever bracelet and we had this tiny notebook that we would exchange and write on once a week before we gave it to each other. he would tuck me in late at night, wait for me to go to sleep then drive home. hes amazing and yet i took him for granted. i broke his heart and now im dying slowly because of it. ill die when someone else will find him because then that girl wouldve grasp my whole heart and shred it to pieces and put it into flame.

how i beg, to be loved by him again. how i beg to get that second chance. how i beg to be held by him in his arms. how i beg to be his again. how i beg to call him mine. i love him with all my heart. and only God knows how unbelievably sorry i am. God only knows how much i love this guy, God only knows how much i would sacrifice for him, and do everything he wants me to do just for him to be mine again.

i love you aris, with all my heart. ive been missing you but holding myself back to try and reach you so you could have your space. so i wouldnt be annoying to you. so i wouldnt push you away. please remember how we were when we were happy, please remember how you told me we’d work through anything and we’ll overcome whatever comes our way no matter how hard it is. please remember im still the same girl, please remember that im still yours to take. i love you and i miss you. im sorry please forgive me. 

God only knows how pure my heart is when i say i will never do anything to hurt you, and if i do God will strike me with lightning. I miss you so much. im sorry. 

by karmelizzie