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Nobody is perfect until you fall in love with them...
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Do you need any help running this blog?
Nope. I’m fine just by myself. :)
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Okayy.. Hey ... uhmm.. I just wanted to ask for advice :) You're advice for other people are very helpful.. and.. well.. I wanted to ask >.< ... Hmm.. I've been dating this one guy... he's the first guy I've EVER dated.. and well.. he lets me experience all these feelings..good.. heart - warming and really nice feelings that I've never experienced.. and we TALK about love.. but I'm not sure if I love him.. and.. well... =.= .. we've only been dating since July 16 2011... and .. i don't know.. if I do love him.. but I know I'm falling in love.. but.. I dunno... is it love? Do I love him? .. or.. I just THINK i love him... who knows... I might be paranoid... but.. yeah.. I really like him.. but I don't know if It's love or i just think it's love.. and .. another thing... I don't know if He's my first love.. THE frigg ... something is wrong with me...I just don't know what I REALLYY feel... or am I just thinking all of my feelings? Help pleeasee?
Relax a little! Like you said, you haven’t been dating for very long. You shouldn’t even be worrying about whether or not you are in love yet! Just keep what you’re doing and let yourself be happy. :)
Also, when you are truly in love, you will know it without a single doubt.
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isn't it kinda wrong to fall in love with your bff's ex? :(
I don’t think it’s “wrong.” You can’t help who you fall for, and as long as he/she is over it, it shouldn’t matter.
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hey i just love your blog and um i dont have a bf or relationship like that but i have a wonderful son, so can i drop some photos of him?? i just looooooooove him so much. he is my worldd
Of course! My blog isn’t only for romantic love. :)
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is it okay to ask you directly for advice on this blog?
Yes, for now.
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I'm thirteen does it make me a slag that I've been to second base with a boy I dont fancy?:LL
…Why are you even worried about boys at all? There’s so many more important things you could be doing. You have a few years before you need to worry about dating.
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This is my bestfriend, my boyfriend. I never thought I’d...
This is my bestfriend, my boyfriend. I never thought I’d fall so hard for him.
We used to hang out all the time, and occasionally flirt. I never thought it’d be anything more since he seemed to do it with every other girl. Once I got through a really rough relationship, we’d always be around each other. Well, after a field trip at school, he wanted to ask me out. Afraid of being hurt, I let him down and told him no, because I knew he was a flirt and a player. And I got jealous really easily. We still texted all the time, talked on Facebook, hung out outta school. Well, after a while, he started only talking to me. I noticed the difference of who he talked to, and how he talked to girls. Then we started dating.. at first I didn’t know what I had, but now, after 4 months, I already know I love him with all my heart.
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Ken, Hi. Well, you’re barely EVER on tumblr, but i thought...
Ken,
Hi. Well, you’re barely EVER on tumblr, but i thought i’d let all of my followers read what i’ve got to say about my significant other. I’ll end up telling you about the post, then you’ll read it & say “Awww babe, you’re so cute. I love you.” (: I know you so well.
So let me just say, you’re amazing, incredible, something sent from heaven. You have changed me so much, for the good not the bad. Even though you don’t think about words before you say them, you mean well. You never mean to hurt my feelings, im just easily hurt sometimes. You treat me like a princess, you give me everything i want… even though its not exactly when i want it, you still get it. It may be a month, a week, or an hour later, but you get it. Its little things like this that make me fall for you more and more each day.
I know im not the easiest person to be with. With all my mood swings, bitchy attitudes… and lets not forget my jealousy. Even though you don’t understand why im like this, you deal with it. God, i wish i knew why. I hate the “its cause i love you” crap. Its not only that, something else lets you tolerate my shit. BUT, i love that… no one else put up with it. You also point it out…which no one ever does. You flat out say, “you’re being a bitch right now, can you stop?” It makes me smile cause you HATE arguing, but i sorta like it. I like making you frustrated, because i know im the only one who can do that. (;
Ken, when im with you… time seems to stop. I get to enjoy the rare time we spend together. I get to stare into your eyes, even though eye contact freaks you out. We get to act like complete idiots together and not have to worry about the other person thinking you’re weird. I can be my complete self and not be judged by you. You don’t understand what a relief in life that is. That’s one of the best things about our relationship. We are lovers, yet best friends.
The other day we got into an argument, because i felt like you didn’t believe in a future in us… but today you asked me where i’d like to marry you. I told you it didn’t matter to me WHERE or WHEN we got married, as long as he’s the man im marrying. It may be silly to some people, since im only 16, but… when you have this feeling that you found the person you’d like to grow old with, you can’t just blow it off. I don’t want to spend my life with anyone else but you. I can’t imagine it. Maybe we’ll break up, maybe we’ll stop talking for a while… but i know we’ll find eachother again, if it happens, and we’ll fall in love just like we were before.
I love you so much Ken. Dont ever forget that.
Your girlfriend,
Karina-Jaylene. <3
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The date was October 5th, 2010. It wasn’t the most...
The date was October 5th, 2010. It wasn’t the most beautiful day weather wise, but I will forever remember it as being something more. We walked past the gates where rebellious dimwits did their drugs, and stood on the corner, right next to the stop sign. You then took me in your arms exclaiming “I like you” and then you went in for the kiss. I panicked of course.. Me being me and all, and went in for a hug instead.
“… And I missed…” you said. We then sat on the curb and began to talk:
” So I was wondering if I could take you out sometime,” you said.
“Of course, I’d like that very much… Does this mean we’re boyfriend/girlfriend?” I asked.
“Yes Val, we are.”
These are some pictures of me and my boyfriend Connor. We’ve been together for the past ten months and I can’t even describe how happy he makes me. I love everything about him: from his geeky love for Dungeons & Dragons to his passion to travel and write. He’s taught me so much about life and love, and I can never seem to thank him enough. He can put up with my crazy five year old antics, which would probably send other people over the edge. We’re currently facing some tough decisions regarding the future (he’s going away to college and I’m entering my junior year of high school) but I know we’ll do whatever is best.
His Tumblr: fuckingmultiverse.tumblr.com
Mine: getnostalgicforawhile.tumblr.com
I love you, and happy ten month dear [: <3
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He is truly an amazing person to know, the way I know him. He...
He is truly an amazing person to know, the way I know him. He has a great heart and good intentions, but with the fact that he doesn’t treat everyone the same makes me feel special for being so important to him.To me, he’s like the male version of who I am. We share many similarities and our differences help us learn. Arguments are there of course but we don’t leave them unsolved by trying to talk them out. He never swears at me even through his anger. We’ve both pushed each other away several times with excuses, but whether we think we’re not good enough or think negatively at all due to other influences, we stick together. I lose my ‘Miss Independent’ mentality as I learn to open up to him. He’s my exception to so many things, and I’m the only girl he has eyes for. We’re still learning about one another, ourselves, and how we work together as one… every single day. It’s tough, not easy as pie, but not difficult to complain at all.
Essential balance with trust is key to this relationship.
He makes me laugh, we fool around all time, he considers me his best friend, and we’re crazy mad about each other. He inspires me to be all that I am, and loves me for it. He keeps me feeling positive. I’m definitely in love with him. * These pictures were taken at Disney Land recently and while we wait in a long line for a ride, he looked at our reflection at a glass wall and said “we actually do look good together”. That GMH, because in the beginning… that didn’t matter (looks or not), but it’s cute to think that after a long time.
Our story? Read on for summary:
I’ve met him years back, when I was still so young and teen-like so I crushed on his looks and basketball skills. It was P.E. class, but sadly, I never got that chance to talk to him. He got into a relationship. I moved past that little crush, but I couldn’t move past my image of him. He seemed intriguing, but I didn’t know that he’s the intriguing boy I’ve always wanted to meet in life. We were drifted apart by distance, and we both went through some major difficulties in life (both different scenarios). He came back and was placed in a class with me, coincidentally sat in the seat next to me. I honestly trust his brief explanation of why he was to move back, the trust that others probably wouldn’t have given him. We ended up dating regardless of approval or not (who are they to tell us who to be with).
He’s proven to me that when one makes a mistake, one has to own up to it. People like me who may have easier than most are to not take great things for granted and never to fret on minuscule things. People like him who have to work for what they want are to never dwell on fallen outcomes, but to keep on trying for what it’s worth. Everyone needs somebody to love, and we fall in place as puzzle pieces that can’t fit with any other piece. “-click-!” =)
Can you see our connection through these simple pictures?
- infinitelyserene.tumblr.com
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Hey guys, meet Brandon - he is my best friend, worst enemy,...
Hey guys, meet Brandon - he is my best friend, worst enemy, lover, goofball, squishy, my boyfriend. I know most of you wont even take the time to read this but ohh well. We met on July 24th, 2010. & we became official August 15th, 2010. we have been together almost a year now & he still gives me those butterflies in my tummy, & that sparkle in my eyes. we have been so fucking much together its not even funny. yes i know we are young, (he is 20 & I am 18) but this is it - he is the one my heart beats for every night, the reason I wake up in the morning. I love him with every lil piece of my heart. Yes there are times when we fight (like last night) but we both calmed down & hugged it out. He is an amazing guy with the cutest smile & a laugh to die for. I believe that I am the luckiest girl to be able to fall asleep to his skin against mine & to wake up to the sound of his heartbeat. I cant lie though - I miss when he used to send me cute messages to wake up to in the morning, or when he would just kiss me out of the blue. I miss it, a lot & we have a lot to work on as a couple & as individuals. But guess what ? I love his flaws & all. I wouldn’t want him any other way - he is absolutely perfection to me. I know he will never see this because he doesn’t have a tumblr - but i love you baby forever i promise. August 15th, 2010 <3
by feenfortoria
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My boyfriend and I are exactly 7,385 miles apart. He’s in...
My boyfriend and I are exactly 7,385 miles apart. He’s in the Philippines while I’m here in L.A. We will be celebrating our 57th month anniversary on August 9 and we have 1,088 days (on the day I submitted this) before we see each other again.
I woke up to this message on my inbox. I was nagging him like crazy before I slept because he missed writing on our daily journal. I know I should have understood, considering he’s in his senior year in college and he has tons of requirements, assignments and projects. He still texts me generously and stays up with me on skype even when he’s sleepy. This is the English translation of what he wrote:
“I’m sorry if I’ve been so busy mhy. Sorry if I can’t do the little things anymore. I love you. You’re the only one for me. Our memories together are what I always carry with me every day. I miss those days when I finish my classes and feel energized knowing I’d get to see you again at the end of the day. Now, it’s so empty. I miss you. Very. I want to go where you are. I want to be with you.”
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To tall those people in overseas LDRs, I completely respect every single one of you for staying strong. I'm in an LDR but we're only a state away, and I can barely handle it emotionally...I admire you guys, and you inspire me to stay strong because you seem to believe it's worth it (:
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Could you do anything, even just post this? I'm desperately trying to get my boyfriend's band out there. They're called Mission Hill and I have two songs of theirs on my tumblr. It'd mean the world to me and to him if you could just post this, reblog them, anything to get them out there
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This is Daniel, the first time I met him right after a football...
This is Daniel, the first time I met him right after a football practice. He’s a linebacker and offensive charger…he’s also my polar bear. This picture was almost a year ago, and when he walked onto that black top, I knew at once that I could never let him walk out of my life.
One night sitting in the car, smoking a cigarette and looking up at the stars, Daniel and I were talking about our friends and who would date who. He put me and him together. Later that night he kissed me, and we turned into friends with benefits. He told himself and everyone that’s all it was. I had a girlfriend at the time so nothing else could happen, and eventually that girl and I broke up because she could see just as clearly as everyone but else could, we were crazy about each other. This last week he came with my family on a trip to San Diego. We spent 24 hours a day for 7 days with each other and still wanted more. I didn’t shower alone or sleep alone once, he carried all my shit and I did his laundry. I made this kid eggs in the mornings and tucked him in at night. He kept me from partying too hard, and I made him come home before he could get in any trouble. On the 6 hour car ride home he texted me the usual “I see you<3” from the seat next to me. From there we texted and smiled, and made it pretty clear to each other that this past week has shown us both exactly what we need. “I want you to be mine, all mine.” Those are the sweetest words I’ve ever heard, and I’ve been waiting for them for a year…a year of cigarette runs, sneak outs, kisses, biting, slapping, yelling, ignoring, drunk phone calls, good morning texts and whole lot of oblivious, shrugged off “I love you”s.
Just now I drove over to his house for the millionth time, so he could ask me a question he already knew the answer to…and hopefully this extremely dysfunctional, confusing, and unconventional love story…has a happy ending. :’)
I love him.
sweetestdisposition.tumblr.com
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I like that innocent love.
Not the type of love where people KNOW they’re in love and thus proceed to shove it in people’s faces.
No, I mean that love you see where it’s just so…. natural for these two people to be in love that it doesn’t seem to be forced or extra or anything.
It’s just innocent. From the words that are said to the gentle touches that are given. Even in the way they look at each other.
It doesn’t have to be proclaimed that “MY NAME IS _______ AND I LOVE THIS PERSON!!!” People just……know at one glance that those people are just…in love. And the reason they don’t need to proclaim it? Because the other person already knows. It’s implied. No words have to be said— actions speak louder.
…..That’s something sacred. Something special. Something people should strive for.
Just a thought.
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This picture was taken 2 years ago, on our 6 month anniversary...
This picture was taken 2 years ago, on our 6 month anniversary trip to Las Vegas. We would celebrate of ‘monthsaversaries’ by traveling out of town. I loved the fact that he was just as adventurous as I was. We were perfect for each other. We balanced each other out. He was my nerd and I was his dork. Yeah we were cheesy like that. He was and still is the love of my life. He was my best friend, lover, secret keeper and my other half. He was the best thing that has entered my life. Truth be told, most good things come to an end. We broke up the day after Christmas ‘10. I miss him everyday and there isn’t a day that goes by that I don’t think about him and what we had.
Here’s our back story:
We both went to the same High School and my best friend was his friend as well. I was on the cheer leading team and he the drum major. The day of our senior year homecoming football game a few of the band members (including himself) and cheerleaders decided to get together and go out to eat. Of course I had to stay behind cause I had a project to work on, but my best friend went along with them…
At that time, I knew of him but really didn’t pay too much attention cause I was focused on school and my boyfriend at that time.
Fast forward to the day that we first got together…
We got together on July 25, 2009. Prior to that, my best friend told me that he’s been asking about me and wanted to know if I was with anyone. So, she invited me to his brother’s birthday party at our local bar called The Little Rock. We walked in to meet up with his brother and his cousins. Being as it was, that was my first time meeting his brother and cousins, so I didn’t know what I was getting into. Then he came from behind me with 2 drinks in his hand. I thought that he was the cutest guy there. So, considering of what I already knew about him, I decided to go for it and ask him to be mine. And he agreed. :)
We were together for a year and a half. The year that we had together was the happiest time for the both of us. We were never home for more than an hour at the most. We were always out creating new adventures with each other or with friends. Then somewhere towards the end, we started staying home more often and the communication just stopped and turned into petty arguments and eventually we couldn’t fix what was broken and broke up. I would give anything to have him back in my life again.
Mine: 14:59
His: none
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today is our six month anniversary: the celebration not of an...
today is our six month anniversary: the celebration not of an arbitrary number of days, but that we have shared half year out of our mere 20 years of life.
I wish we could be together for this day, so I could kiss him and whisper in his ear how much he means to me. But he’s on an adventure in canada with two more weeks until we’re back together.
He’s the best. and I wouldn’t take one minute of our half a year back.
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I love this kid. by kittiesonfireohnoez
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