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no offense to james. but, you seem fantastic. and amazing. and so what if you're depressed. you shouldn't have to hide it from him in order to be with him. it's his job as a boyfriend to accept who you are totally, even your flaws. that's what a relationship is. and instead of breaking up with you because you're depressed, he should try and help. and help some more. and some more. until it's gone. and maybe it takes ridiculously long for it to be gone, but if he's really deserving of you, he will wait and help you through it. not get going when the going gets tough. i know everyone on here loves james so much, but honestly, when i read that you guys broke up over because you're depressed and now you're hiding it and not expressing it on your tumblr (which is yours to express whatever you please), i've lost complete respect for him and i am so sorry for you. you deserve so, so much more than that. and even if you don't want to hear it, you deserve to be told it. if you ever need to vent or talk or cry or anything, you can talk to me. just know that you deserve to be able to be who you are and to completely accepted for it. you are a beautiful person.

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I used to think the same thing you did, and then I woke up. The fact is, he’s not undeserving just because he left me for me being depressed. He came back, right? He just needed a break. Everyone has a breaking point.

Also, my depression is really horrible. He told me all the time of how he felt helpless because he’d try to cheer me up and then see a post on tumblr made by me telling myself to “kill yourself already.”

I told him the same thing, “writing on tumblr is my way of venting” “cutting makes the pain inside go away”. And maybe he didn’t understand, but ever since I stopped both of those things for him, I have been so much better off. The “venting” did not make anything better. Writing notes to myself to remind myself I’m “worthless” and “deserve to die” did NOT make anything better. I do not need to vent to anyone, because I’m fine.


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