Okay, so i know everyone says there is no way to change a guy. and i believe that, but there is a way to mend his heart. This is my boyfriend Jonny. We met almost a year ago through a friend when i started working at a coffee shop in our small town of Colorado. At that time I was in a steady relationship with a guy who had it all planned out, no straying from his “5 year plan” to become a doctor. Although it was a nice change from my past relationship ( who tore me down and left me with no self esteem and desperate for someone to rely on for me to love), there was no excitment or passion for life..just the everyday drill of school, gym, study. The first time i met jonny, although gross, was when he came in and told his friend at my work that he needed a bandaid because he got bored in the tanning bed and ripped a scab off (disgusting i know lol). He had what they reffered to as a “crazy B**CH” aka a girlfriend. They had been together three years and she had been breaking his heart slowly but surely. When i met Jonny he was hateful towards girls, would be a player just to see someone get hurt, but more importantly to protect himself. Since we have been together i have not only realized he is nothing like the “Jersey Shore” persona he tried to display when we first met. it was merely a front to hold his heart dear to him. He is one of the most caring, protecting, loving people i have ever met. Everyone has made their mistakes but just a note to girls: although it may not seem he cares, or that your actions are hurting him, they are. Even if you mean nothing in the end, the memory of the way he felt will last forever. You may not be meant to be together, but if you cared for him at any point in your life you will want him to alteast be able to find happiness. so dont rip someone heart out without thinking how it will affect the rest of their life. They will remember. I am just lucky enough to have found a guy who was able to have his heart be mended. He didnt change for me, i helped him build himself back up, feel he is worth being loved, and knowing that he will have my heart forever.
I Love You Jonathan.
by labellevida