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iheartaylorswift asked: Hey sweetheart! Thank you so much for the following, it means a lot for me! Hope you enjoy my blog! Xoxo <3

I don’t remember following but you’re welcome!

anonymous asked: Hey this is the creator of Fuck Yeah Forever Best Friends & I was wondering if you can promote the site. I am still having trouble on getting submissions. 

Thanks a lot & I hope I haven’t asked too many times
- FYFBF.

http://fuckyeahforeverbestfriends.tumblr.com/

I’ll put you in my follow friday.

here-is-some-inspiration-for-you asked: What inspires you?

Everything. My boyfriend, my family, my cat, colors, plaid, hockey, music, supernatural. Really, everything.

anonymous asked: there’s too many asian couples on here!

There’s too many racists in my ask!

dhyniiutami asked: what’s ur inspiration?

I answered this up there ^

But my boyfriend answered with “people who spell right.”

rayofrainshine asked: Would you rather be in a relationship where you loved them more, or in one that they loved you more?

I would want to be in a healthy relationship, so neither.

anonymous asked: Told my friend to consider me as a roomie for next year. Then I spoke with my mom and discovered she does not approve of my friend. Now my friend got their acceptance letter, and told me that they’d be happy to be my roommate. Mom won’t let..

What should I do/tell my friend?

Well I firmly believe that you should do what makes you happy no matter what anyone says, but if you truly want to base this decision off of your mom’s acceptance of it, then maybe you should just tell your friend what you told me. Explain that you only want to respect your family’s wishes, and then maybe try again the following year. I’m sure your friend will understand.

gotlostalongtheway asked: I need some help. So I like this guy and he and his girlfriend of a year and a half broke up because of distance. I have liked this guys since the beginning of first semester but never talked to him. He is in one of my classes and I have been wanting to ask him if he wants to hang out. I havent really talked to him though so I dont know if i should ask him. I am friends with a bunch of t guy dance majors in my class and I am not so nervous asking in front of them. I sent one or two messages to the guy on facebook about hanging this past weekend but he did not respond. Today i see him on crutches. So Without ever talking to this guy, do you think i should ask him to hang out?

Normally I would just say “go for it” but his situation seems different. He didn’t answer you on Facebook and suddenly came in with crutches, so he might be going through a lot at this time. Maybe for now you should just talk to him and be there for him as a friend, and when you get more comfortable with each other, ask to hang out.

fictitiousmomentum asked: You’re “what is love?” post is beautiful. Thank you for being so positive about all the different lovers and loves that can exist out there. I’m always SO happy people like you exist. 

I love this blog and your personal blog <3 
Keep being awesome!!!

Thank you so much. :)

anonymous asked: I want to know… is this a kind of boyfriend you want that sends texts like this? Does he really love you if he says he comes back but gets angry and says these texts?


“Fuck you for lying. All your tumblr is shit about friends and how you want love. Where is one post about ‘I love my boyfriend’” this whole time apart?”
“Where huh? Defend yourself now”
“Admit your fucking wrong and apologize and beg for my forgiveness like a pthetic bitch and tell me how you feel”
“fucking do what I said now”
“fuck you, you can’t even do what you I ask of you.”
“do fucking better right now”
“make it up right now and change it all”
“and tell everyone how everything was your fucking fault, how you sent me to jail”
“you deserved to get hit”
“fucking find a way to do it. lie to everyone and say you love me. on twitter, tumblr, facebook. lie to everyone like you fucking lied to me”
“you still can’t admit the truth. thats exactly how it was. go find your rebound now. bye”
“prove you love me and convince me to stay with you. pull me back. oh wait, you won’t because i’m manipulative right? or because you don’t love me? because im manipulative, even though you do love me right? but not being ‘manipulated’ is more than loving me right?”
“figures, wehn i need you. you’re on everyone elses side. Thanks for being just like everyone else, bye.”


I want to know is this the kind of boyfriend who loves and cares for you. Because for the longest time I was thinking I was the fucked up person. He was sent to jail because we got into an argument and he was afraid I was going to leave him permanently after we decided to move together in which he then proceeded to go back to his family because he was scared i was going to “lie” and put him in jail for no reason again where in fact he did lay hands on me and im not going to lie i laid hands on him too and that doesnt make me a better person. but really…its always the same fighting…everything. im doing my best to move on from this and its hard because i really still love him and believed he would change after all this and i know i had my flaws too but really…this clearly isnt worth it. i just wanted to ask you your thoughts. if you’d like to know more please let me know if this isnt enough. this clearly is just a gist of some of the realtionship out of the whole 9 months.

It seems to me like you COULD be in an abusive relationship. I don’t really know enough to determine it, but I do know enough to determine that this relationship is very unhealthy for the both of you. It doesn’t matter who is right and wrong anymore. Nothing should drive you both to put the blame on each other, to call each other pathetic or manipulative, and to hit each other. Whether you love him or he loves you doesn’t matter. If you two aren’t happy being together, then you shouldn’t be together.

anonymous asked: how did you get the endless scrolling on your page?

It came with my theme.


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