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Ask me anything or Ask for advice youknowhowitfeels asked: I understand that you were trying not to...

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youknowhowitfeels asked: I understand that you were trying not to appear rude, but you really do have to be careful about how you come across on the internet. I’ve had a blog (on my friends server, not on tumblr) now for many years and including buzzwords and phrases like ‘I don’t mean to be rude’, ‘homophobia’ and ‘God’ in the same comment is as sure-fire a way as any I know for unintentionally-on-purpose getting people riled. I can’t honestly believe that you’re too naive to see this, I’m afraid. If you really don’t mean to be rude when you say this kind of stuff then - word to the wise - you really do need to be far more careful. Believe it or not, pissed as I am, I really do mean that last bit as a piece of genuine advice, not a reprimand. It is possible, also, to run a popular blog, keep your own life to yourself, and not be *rude* - polite, but assertive - to your readers when they seemto think you don’t post enough.


Misspellings, typos etc courtesy of my iPhone.

I guess it really depends on perspective on if I sounded rude or not. Even so, it’s not really important. As for the homophobia and God thing, really? So just because I put the thoughts next to each other that means I was relating them to each other? I also put in the same thought “some people believe that love doesn’t even exist and that everyone is just fooling themselves.” Where does that fit into my obvious attempt to say that all Christians are against homosexuality by simply putting them into the same list? 

Oh, and not that I have to explain myself to someone like you, but I will never keep my personal life separate from this blog. This is not a job, this is a hobby, so it’s actually a part of my personal life. Also, I am nice to almost everyone who writes me messages, sometimes even haters, but for the most part, why should I be nice to someone who is going out of their way to disrespect me? Why should I sugarcoat what I want to say for someone who isn’t worth it. Please, keep your “advice” to yourself and don’t tell me how to run my blog.

trashandfashion- asked: aww maan all this reading about love makes me want a boyfriend soooooo badly :L ahaha. love ur blog thoee <33 x

It kind of has that effect on people, haha. But don’t let it get you down. Let it lift your hopes instead! :)

beyonddream asked: Can I please get my blog up post please ? It would mean alot for me and my boyfriend would glad to see it ; mine was the one with three Picture and Ausgur 13.2010

I can’t make you promises. Some things get posted, some don’t. I have a lot of posts on my queue right now (although I’m manually posting them) so your post could be in there, or it could have been deleted. 


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