Recently I was Holidaying in Tenerife. It was a family Holiday so I expected it to be pretty average stuff but instead it turned out to be one of the most amazing weeks of my life.
On my second night there I met a beautiful Hungarian man who works as an Animacion at the hotel I was staying. I was drunk and made a fool out of myself but something clicked and my entire week ended up with us being near to inseprable.
Back home I never fall for anyone, I never see further than physical attraction, I’m not shallow, there just hasn’t been that moment. That moment when you think ‘wow, this is who I should be with’, well with Csaba every moment was like that. We are so different, we come from completely different worlds, but he is the most interesting, inspiring, romantic, spontaneous, exciting and hillarious person I have ever met and I am in awe of how much he could effect my life in just a week.
Coming home was the most difficult thing because I know that I might not ever see him again. And although we are determined to remain in touch and to hopefully be reunited as soon as possible I am aware that life doesn’t always go the way you want.
We spent our final night together on the roof of the hotel, under the stars with the view of the island in front of us. That night he said something to me that I thought was important to share with anyone else dealing with Long Distance Relationships:
“Even if we never see each other again, and I never get to kiss you or hold you in my arms another night, I won’t be mad for that, instead I will be forever thankful for the amazing memories I have of us together, because those I get to keep as mine always.”
I think his attitude towards it is one we should all embrace, because its better to celebrate time you’ve had than to mourn time lost.