He is truly an amazing person to know, the way I know him. He has a great heart and good intentions, but with the fact that he doesn’t treat everyone the same makes me feel special for being so important to him.To me, he’s like the male version of who I am. We share many similarities and our differences help us learn. Arguments are there of course but we don’t leave them unsolved by trying to talk them out. He never swears at me even through his anger. We’ve both pushed each other away several times with excuses, but whether we think we’re not good enough or think negatively at all due to other influences, we stick together. I lose my ‘Miss Independent’ mentality as I learn to open up to him. He’s my exception to so many things, and I’m the only girl he has eyes for. We’re still learning about one another, ourselves, and how we work together as one… every single day. It’s tough, not easy as pie, but not difficult to complain at all.
Essential balance with trust is key to this relationship.
He makes me laugh, we fool around all time, he considers me his best friend, and we’re crazy mad about each other. He inspires me to be all that I am, and loves me for it. He keeps me feeling positive. I’m definitely in love with him. * These pictures were taken at Disney Land recently and while we wait in a long line for a ride, he looked at our reflection at a glass wall and said “we actually do look good together”. That GMH, because in the beginning… that didn’t matter (looks or not), but it’s cute to think that after a long time.
Our story? Read on for summary:
I’ve met him years back, when I was still so young and teen-like so I crushed on his looks and basketball skills. It was P.E. class, but sadly, I never got that chance to talk to him. He got into a relationship. I moved past that little crush, but I couldn’t move past my image of him. He seemed intriguing, but I didn’t know that he’s the intriguing boy I’ve always wanted to meet in life. We were drifted apart by distance, and we both went through some major difficulties in life (both different scenarios). He came back and was placed in a class with me, coincidentally sat in the seat next to me. I honestly trust his brief explanation of why he was to move back, the trust that others probably wouldn’t have given him. We ended up dating regardless of approval or not (who are they to tell us who to be with).
He’s proven to me that when one makes a mistake, one has to own up to it. People like me who may have easier than most are to not take great things for granted and never to fret on minuscule things. People like him who have to work for what they want are to never dwell on fallen outcomes, but to keep on trying for what it’s worth. Everyone needs somebody to love, and we fall in place as puzzle pieces that can’t fit with any other piece. “-click-!” =)
Can you see our connection through these simple pictures?
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