Can i just point out, that even people who to 'choose' to have an abortion, don't always feel like they have a choice. I was pro-life until i got pregnant, and then everything changed. I didn't feel like my baby would even have a proper life so i felt i was doing the right thing. There's something called PASS. It's sort of like post-natal depression for those who have had an abortion. It points out that women are not fully informed before they go through with the procedure and it often causes depression for years- but this doesn't mean that they didn't do the right thing. or think they were doing the right thing at the time. Even if you delete all of this, please forward this site to the girl. Many of us feel worthless, but we will get through it together. www.passboards.org and www.afterabortion.com. Telling us we did wrong, won't help us heal.

I’ve e-mailed her what seems like a million times, just to let me know she’s okay and that she didn’t kill herself…but she hasn’t answered. :( BUt I hope others in that situation will use those sites.