Heya, I know youre probably getting zillions of asks right now, but this is relatively simple. I dated this guy for two months, and he cheated on me, and then told me this and also that he didnt know who to choose, me or the other girl. After a 5 hour talk he decided to choose the other girl, who admitted she liked him because she wanted a boyfriend. A week ago they became fbo. Throughout all of this, hes been talking and flirting with me, but he seems blind to the fact that hes making it hard to get over him, even though Ive explained it. I realized when he became official that I have no respect for the way he treats people and himself, and Ive begun to ignore him. Should I go through the trouble of explaining I need space, or should I just cut him off, and finally move on cleanly? Thanks lovely, take care. xoxo

I feel like you should tell him before you just cut him off. You wouldn’t want to put any “what ifs” into your head if you keep things inside that you may want to tell him. It’ll also give you any closure you need, and then you’ll be completely able to move on from him.