do you think its worth being with your bestfriends ex? she wasnt really my bestfriend because she would ALWAYS dawg me for him. and she called me a slut, bitch and hated me at one stage. she is very controlling, bitchy, stubborn and everything. that is why her ex was so fed up. he put up with her for two years. and now me and him like each other. im not bestfriends with her anymore. her and everyone thinks its my fault that they ended. wheb really it was hers. i still want to be friends with her again however if i do she said i have to leave him. but i actually think hes the one. is it worth it?

I don’t normally answer advice but I really don’t think you should be friends with this person. If you can say things like that about her with a straight face AND she’s making you choose between her and someone else, then I don’t think she’s being a real best friend at all. And maybe you’re not either, whatever, but that just shows even moreso that maybe you guys shouldn’t be best friends. If you have a good feeling for this guy, then go for it, despite what ANYONE else says.