i heard a recent post an it made me smile it was kinda close to my story but with its own flaws and diffrences. my husband is not the normal guy by far!! Today marks out 5 months as a married couple,and in 5 more months a happy family of 3 :). I met my husband online september of 2009,we talked none stop a week and he drove 4 hours to come visit, the weekend went way better then expected, at 17 I was in a ruff spot in life with my parents, my big mistake of an ex trying to harrass me, we decided i would run away with him, after one amazing week together my dad after threating to call the cops drove up and got me. Ben had been in a seriouse relationship of 3 years right befor all this and between his ex and other girls he seemed to be ready to move on i knew it must of been to good to be true.we talked but rarely and usually faught. my dad and step mom decided i was so miserable he could move it so we could see if the distance was what caused the problems. we lived together starting halloween and it went pretty well besides him still texting his ex and then i caught hmim talking to anotehr girl also we tried to work through it but thankgiving we went to spend withh is family his ex showed up and we split from all the drama a couldnt take it anymore. we said we may end up back together but he needed to get over her first, a week after he was with a new girl,i was devistated they were on and off for 4months her taking his money cheating on him, his problem he didnt wanna be alone and though i didnt talk directly to him i knew,after 5 months in april he came and visited the weekend after him and her we broken up for a month. it went okay but my gaurd was up, after he left i realized how much i truely did love him it hurt 2 weeks later i moved 4 hours away to live with him,things were perfect for 4 weeks till I caught him talkingt o toehr girls but like it had been my fault he freaked out and broke thigns off i left. I stayed gone only a couple months till july i was back again an he had changed no more girls on the side, i was slowly trusting him again so we started talking about making it forever after and i geuss it scared him, one day he seemed so distant it hurt then he told me he didnt wanna live with me but he loved me he didnt wanna committ i was so confused it hurt i called his best friend and together they brought me home. we didnt talk for a month or so after thingking a was pregnant i had no choice butt to call him, it was a very distant akward conversation and for 2 days we text him asking if i took a test i would say no and that was it then i called and told him i had start my monthly cycle and he broke down and explained everything to me what had truely been underneath it all that year of pain, at first i thought it was another one if his games to hurt me but he talked constatly for weeks and i noticed big changes then form befor when we would talk and he cried 2 or 3 times a week casue he missed me I would wait till i would go to bed but secretly i was crying to, I promised him one last and final chance. he came 2 weeks later and i was off to live with him again. things were better then ever, he had fianlly realzed I had had enough and i was done with games, when i saw him i realized that month and half i was gone he had lost weight badly he is skinny enough befor he looked horrible, so things got better we got happier, he got healthy weight put back on, 2 months later it was his birthday and he suprised me for his birthday he wanted to show me he was ready for the commitment and we went to the courthouse and got married a little over a month later we found out that special week we not only got married ,we also got me knocked up. 5 months and things have never been better everyone always said guys dont change no matter what im here to say they really do change they do grow up when they find someoen they care about since being married, he got his first job in 2 years, we moved to key west.fl 14 hours from his home town and 10 from mine,and i honestly think its a true love story and i am getting my happily ever after i dreamed about