Everyone always says to find love you have to stop looking but that's like impossible for me. Everywhere I go and see a cute boy I always imagine what it'd be like if he was my boyfriend or something. I know it sounds crazy but that's what I do :/ do you have any tips on how to stop looking? I'm not sure if you consider this an advice question so I'm sorry if I'm bugging you

That used to be me, since I am a hopeless romantic. I wish I knew what to tell you. I found James during the time I was LEAST ready for love. It was right after I had gotten out of an abusive relationship and then he just randomly appeared in my life. So I don’t know what to tell you. All I can say is that it’ll happen to you just like it happens to everyone else. :)