Ask me anything or Ask for advice
anonymous asked: Yeah… a few people have messaged you about your theme so far, so I don’t think you can say that you “doubt anyone wants [you] to change it” anymore. If you don’t want to change it, fine, but just say that. Don’t make up something else for no reason.
Actually, that one person was the ONLY one so far to say that they didn’t like my theme. I’m sure there are plenty others, seeing as I can’t possible please all 72,000+ of you, but I’ve only really gotten positive messages regarding my theme. Also, I’m not “making things up” when I say that I change my theme based on what my followers want. When I feel it should be changed, I always ask my followers. I asked before I changed it to this one, as you can see here. And afterward, I made a post saying that the new theme was up, and I got a bunch of replies from people saying how much they loved it, as you can see here.
I’m sorry, what were you mindlessly babbling about?
uhmjenniiifer asked: can you put my other blog, prettygirlsprettyshirts.tumblr.com on your next follow friday? :)
Sure. :)
bullettothebrain asked: Thank you for posting my submission! You made my day :D
Thank you for submitting it. :)
anonymous asked: I don’t mean to sound naive, but my boyfriend and I (15 & 16) have been dating for about 2 1/2 months now, and we believe that we are truly in love. Everyone doubts us and repeatedly tell us that it’s simply infatuation, but I disagree entirely. I’m aware that only time will tell if it is truly love.. I hate that I don’t get taken seriously over this. Never before had I ever thought that I could be in love. Especially at such a young age. I’m so grateful for him.
But to my question:
We spend almost every day together (we live three minutes away). We even have sleepovers about once a week. If we haven’t seen each other for a mere day, we miss each other terribly. *I was just wondering if this is.. healthy?* I’m scared that it will later lead to complications further into our relationship, but I can’t help it..
P.S: I love your blog, it’s beautiful! Thanks so much <3
I wouldn’t say that seeing each other all the time is unhealthy. However, you guys seem to have some issues with attachment. If it’s not a problem with your relationship, I wouldn’t MAKE it a problem, but like you said, it may later lead to complications if you can’t spend a mere day without each other without going crazy. Hopefully being this attached isn’t making either of you rely on the other for happiness, because that would definitely make it a problem. If that’s not the case, though, this is an easy thing to fix if you do choose to fix it.
Oh, and about people doubting that you are in love? For lack of better words, fuck them. Nobody can tell you whether or not you are in love. No one knows what you’re feeling better than yourself.