anonymous asked: I love your blog, its so sad and cute at the same time, One question, will you date another person?
While already dating someone else? Absolutely not.
nanshenny asked: i like this girl whom i know for quite sometime. she is very nice and friendly. . we went on one date and i told her i really enjoyed my day and said that i’ll like to date her is she wants to. she said that she is ok that we are friends and that she is happy that way. that same night she she confessed that she is still in love with her ex.
how do i get her to like me? i feel a lot for this girl.help? =(
ps: im a girl too.
You can’t “get” someone to like you. She has to do it on her own. You could talk to her about future possibilities and maybe work out something with her, but you can’t force her to like you. Oh, and that ps wasn’t necessary. For some reason whenever i read something about a girl (“i like this girl” “this is my girlfriend” etc) I always assume it’s a lesbian couple and not just a guy writing it. :)
thoserude-interruptions asked: I just wanted to say thanks for posting my submission! It’s not even just that fact you posted it that made me happy, it’s the fact that so many people actually took the time to like, reblog and appreciate it that really made me feel good. So I’d like to say thanks for giving me that confidence boost :) You’re amazing <3 Have a great holiday season!
Thank you for submitting it. :)
anonymous asked: Im having mixed feelings about this guy. I like him but, I dont want him to find out I like him. Should I let him know? & What if we says ”No” & if it its awkward between us? Cos right now we’re good friends. But, he always messes around with me! HELP, PLEASE?
Well, it really depends on what you want. You say you don’t want him to know, and then you ask me if you should let him know. However, it SEEMS to me like you want to preserve the friendship even if there is a chance that you could get together. If you want to keep your friendship the way it is, then I don’t suggest telling him.
anonymous asked: I really like your page n all your advice so i was hoping u could give me some advice…. Well theres this guy i really like we’ve been friend for 4 years but… he tries to flirt with all my friend thats girls. Idk wat to do he talks to me every night n tell me good night n visits me at school everyday when my school over… Does he actually like me? Should I like him?
Never ask yourself “should I like him?”. The heart wants what the heart wants and you can’t control it. As for him liking you, I don’t know. He might, but you said that he tries to flirt with all the girls you know, and he might just be doing the same with you.
minasa asked: what do i do if i think i’m being cheated on… me and my bf live in different cities because i moved…
In most cases, I’d just say to confront him about it, but it kind of depends. What makes you think you’re being cheated on?
megatronnjonas asked: I still have feelings for my ex. I really miss him, but he’s trying to act as if he doesn’t care about me. But i know he does, because i know him.. What can i do? I’ve tried to slowly start to chat with him, but it hurts so much.. :/
If it hurts to talk to him, then it’s probably not the best idea to keep trying to talk to him. If you want to get back together with him (if that’s even what you want), then you need effort to make it work from both parties. If he’s not even making an effort to be friends, then that probably isn’t an option. To be honest, I think it’s best if you move on from him.
anonymous asked: I have known this guy for a good few years. We talk almost everyday and are openly honest about how we feel about each other. We are extremely good friends and I can go to him knowing I won’t be judged. Thing is, we’ve never met. And he told me recently that he’s fallen deeply for me. I’ve ALWAYS liked him, but now that he actually likes me back, it’s very exciting, but scary aswell. We don’t live in the same country, we are both in relationships, but we both feel that we’re meant for each other.
He said if he breaks up with his gf, that he’d wait for me, and i’d prob do the same, but I’m very impatient and get paranoid that it will never happen.
Hmm, I know it sounds strange, but he’s not a creep and not a weirdo. We have written letters to each other also.
Would you have any advice?
We’re both in our twenties, but have known each other since well, I was 16, and he was 18.
I do believe we would be together already if we lived in the same country, and I do believe that we will be together for ever when we eventually meet.
it’s just hard waiting.
Does it sound like a con job to you?
I know you can’t really say, coz you know neither of us.
It would be nice though to get your opinion :)
I don’t think it’s a con job at all. I met my boyfriend online, so I know your position very well, and I know what it’s like to have people judge you just because you haven’t met him face to face. Personally, I would wait until there’s a chance to see each other before breaking up with who you’re already involved with, especially is you have issues with being alone.
jleeishere asked: do you have all of the proposal ideas? could you send them to me pleaseee
There’s a search bar at the bottom of my page that might help you find them. :)
anonymous asked: How do I know I”m in love with him and not just in love with the idea of being in love?
I can’t answer that. People have very different experiences as to when they finally realize that they are truly in love, and that all the other times that they THOUGHT they were in love weren’t real. Sometimes people have a moment that happens, some people just wake up and realize it, some people don’t even know it until they look back on what’s happened. It really depends on the person. But I’ll tell you one thing. Everyone thinks they are in love, but when you are TRULY in love, you know it. And you’ll know of all the times that weren’t actually love. When it happens, it happens, and I wouldn’t stress about it too much. :)
anonymous asked: How do you know if a guy likes you back?
It’s hard to know for sure, but there are some little things to look for that might mean he likes you back. Look for signs like, if he texts/calls you in the morning and at night, if he makes sure to talk to you every day, if he compliments/flirts with you, if he says he misses you even if you’ve only been gone a day or a few hours, if he constantly wants to hang out with you, if he notices little things like “your eyes look different today.” etc. :)
i-got-the-magic asked: You have a brilliant page I like it, can you recommend me please?
Or post my link as a note? Much appreciated <3
I don’t promote people, sorry.
anonymous asked: How do i get my boyfriend to propose to me? I’ve been dropping hints like crazy.
I don’t think you can get him to propose to you. Marriage is a HUGE decision that will change both of your lives forever. Maybe he’s not ready for that yet. It usually will depend on your age, job situations, etc. Like, if one of you is still in school, then that could be a pretty big factor as to why he probably isn’t proposing. There’s no harm in talking about marriage if you need to, though. :)