anonymous asked: Two questions.
Is this a LGBT-friendly blog?
And I went back a bit and saw the baby who needs a liver…Do you have any updates on it?
This is a very lgbt friendly blog. :) And no, sadly I do not have any updates.
anonymous asked: About your situation with living with your boyfriend in college.
If there is an established trust between you and your parents, I don’t see why they wouldn’t allow you to live with your boyfriend since it will help with the rent and they allow you to go stay with him at his house. But honestly, I really don’t think its a good idea. College is about experiencing life and everything that comes along with it. I am telling you from personal experience that this not the best idea. I am not saying you will be in the same position as I was but I truly regretted being so attached to my boyfriend my first year of college. I made no friends, didn’t hang out with anyone on my floor and it truly hindered me from getting that true experience of being a college student. Now when my old roommate talks about people on my floor I have no idea what shes talking about because I didn’t know any of the girls or guys. I’m just saying if you really want to experience college for what its worth, dorm on campus. It will be the best experience of your life. I’m just sad I didn’t get to experience that and I don’t want you to regret it later.
Best wishes!
Thank you for your input. :) But I have already thought about this, and I plan on being involved with the college experience and life on campus as much as possible while still living off campus. It’s not even about being too attached to James whereas I wouldn’t survive without him. I have several reasons that I would much rather live off campus than on, but I do want to and plan on getting the same college experience as those who live on campus. :)
iamtheizzy asked: About your college situation. You should talk to them about it and tell them exactly what you feel. You are grown up enough to make your own decisions but it’s good that you want to respect their authority too. Communication is the key to all relationships and it wouldn’t hurt to just throw the idea out to them, right? So take a chance and just discuss things with them, they can also help you figure out things too.
Thanks. :) This is what I’m planning on doing, whenever I get the courage to finally talk to them about it.
tessaislove asked: sorry but my answer to your college thing cut me off. but what i was saying what that im going to tell my father that unlitmatley i want him to trust my decision, and that i want him to respect it. I know there isnt much either of our parents can do about living with our boyfriends, but i understand that we both want them to be okay with it. Im also going to tell him that i’ll visit every couple weeks, and that I would rather move in with someone that I KNOW, and feel COMFORTABLE with, then a complete stranger. Also if anything went wrong between us, we had made an agreement to finish out the lease, or whatever, and then move out from each other. Just try and address it formally like you know what your doing and that you have no doubt that it won’t work. Also address every problem that can happen, so they know your aware. :)
ps,
i got yelled at for supposively “stealing” some girls hannahs posts too. i love your blog, dont mind the immature people on here! <3 I hope everything goes well with your parents & college!
Thanks. :) This has helped a lot! Although I won’t be able to make the promise of visiting every two weeks as I’m going far away for college, but the other stuff will help me a lot. It’ll make it easier to tell them.
erickajade asked: This is in reply to your housing question :) (it was too long for the answer box)
College is stressful. It is really easy to get depressed, lost, confused, even lose all hope. Being a first year university student, I know this well. It also takes up a lot of your time, meaning you won’t be able to see as much of your boyfriend as you like, though this may be easier for you than it is for me, since you are used to being in a LDR. Either way, your boyfriend makes you happy, and there may be days or weeks where he seems like the only thing that does. Living with him would make your happiness possible on a daily basis. Lately, the only times when I am happy are when I am in my boyfriend’s arms, he makes everything bad go away. Try explaining this to your parents, and if they want to see you happy, they should understand. I’m using this reasoning to help my parents let me sleep over at my boyfriend’s house next semester.
Straight from the heart of an in-love university student, trying to keep her 2-year relationship strong while keeping her grades up.
I know that this will probably be me if something happens whereas I don’t get to live with him. It’s already hard right now seeing him once every two months, even though I’m so very grateful that I get to see him as often as that. But I’m going to college very far away, so if I go to college without him, then I will only get to see him maybe 3 or 4 times a year, which will put a lot of stress on me. I hope my parents will understand that. Thanks for your input. :)
anonymous asked: I actually dislike most of the things you post so much and sometimes the things people submit are so stupid but I won’t get myself to unfollow you… because seeing all those happy couples gives me hope.
Umm, thanks, I think? I’m not really sure if this is a compliment or not.
loveetumblr asked: Hi! On the previous ask me anything post, I think empiremouse meant that they wish they had a love story in their life like the posts on here.
Empiremouse, you are good enough :) The right time will come before you realize it!
Oh…oops. I feel like an idiot.
*To the anon that sent a really long advice question, I’m reposting your question on fuckyeahloveadvice (my advice column) so you’ll get more inputs. :) If you don’t like that, then tell me and I’ll take it down and answer here.