Guys only want one thing.
They don’t understand girls
they don’t know what we want
I’m not saying I won’t ever love another guy again
but if I were to love another guy again, I’ll be prepared, and I’ll know he won’t be perfect
It will take many years of ups and downs to reach our life equilibrium.
And I’m just saying, I thought guys were one thing
but they really are the other.
I can’t trust anyone. I can’t trust any guy.
I believed in young love
I believed in fairytales
love was my life. my only goal in life was to marry a guy i loved and live happily ever after.
It didn’t matter if we had money. it didn’t’ matter where we were. we could be living in a shack for all I cared. the only thing I cared about was happiness. and I knew if I was with someone and our love was mutual I would be happy. that’s honestly all I cared about in life.
how would you feel if your strongest belief in life just turned around and told you that it was wearing a mask all this time and that it was lying to you the entire 16 years of your life.
my life revolved around the romeo and juliet prospect. if we died together that’s all that mattered; if we were together in the end. if defying my parents was the only way to be with the guy I loved that’s what I would do.
but NO. I love my family. I love my overprotected mom that yells at me with her high pitched whiny voice all the time. I love my- thinks he knows it all-dad that is always tryna make me happy by buying me food after ballet class when its already 10 pm. and I LOVEEE my baby brother that is already taller than me and makes my day just by being his annoying little self. our entire family kinda fell apart when I was dating this guy. it was so unworth it. every single day at home was a nightmare. I hated going home because everyone at home despised me and looked down on me. you have no idea how protective my brother got for the first year I was dating, he wanted me all to himself, I was his big sister and he was suppose to be the one occupying all my time by annoying me. but no I was everyday on the phone talking away at someone that I thought was my life. honestly, when everyone around you believes there’s something wrong with the person you are dating, there is something wrong.
I never listened to my parents. I never listened to anyone because I thought this guy knew what he was doing. I thought he had OUR entire lives under control, so it didn’t matter if the world hated us. it was me and him against the world.
well, when I started getting harassed I couldn’t even come to face everyone’s, ” I told you so “s. I felt so stupid, everyone around me had seen something that I hadn’t seen early enough.
if you really want to be that rebel. if you really want to be shunned from life. then go away run away with your Juliet. if the people around you don’t feel the person you are dating, and you’ve been trying to make it work for two years and it still doesn’t. it really will never work. why? because you are a part of the people that around you. you are a part of your family. and if the person you are dating doesn’t get along with them, he or she will never be a true part of your family. so you need to choose whether or not you want to give up your identity.
but personally, I believe you were born with your family, and grew up with your best girl and guy friends. and when it all comes down, those are the people that matter to you the most because when nobody else is there for you, they are.
Today I learned that,
every guy goes through life learning more about girls everyday, and that is because they initially knew nothing about girls.
they don’t know how we want to be treated. they don’t know how to take care of us to make us feel truly safe. they might know how to ephemerally, but they don’t know how to be our safety for a lifetime.
they might learn, they might not.
every guy goes through an experience in their lifetime that helps them learn what girls need, and that experience involves the guy being left and heart broken by the girl.
to all those girls whom are involved with this guy experience, I am very sorry but It will be the worst ever.
you will cry when it ended, and be so frustrated about why you believed in everything, that was a lie
I did that. but I think too much and find it hard to just get up and forget it all happened
I hate making the same mistakes again.
I’m scared of falling again.
guys only want one thing
But girls only want one thing too.
girls want everything to be perfect in their life.
and part of that includes having a perfect guy by their side for the rest of their life.
whoever you will be, I hope to meet you someday in the future.
if you can successfully complete my life, I will be in disbelief because as of now I do not believe it is possible.
3 TheEND.
~anonymous <3